Transformations allow one to step back and reflect upon what has been and what is truly possible. It is about truly being able to try and make a difference. This is one of the reasons I have been working on a number of sites to hopefully transform them soon. The goal is to live up to what the great Coco Chanel reminded us all:
“In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different.”
..and To also do it the "Ralph Martson Way" by being reminded of the beautiful reality that is life itself:
Act not out of judgment, but out of love. Live not from a position of fear, but from a perspective of joy.
Let go of the need to prove how good you are. Live in such a way that real goodness, joy and generosity flow naturally from all you do.
Instead of seeking to gain more advantage, discover new ways to give more value. Instead of worrying about what might be, live the immense treasure of what already is.
Don’t waste your time looking for happiness in this thing or that. Let happiness always find you right where you are, doing whatever you are doing.
See life not as a contest where some must lose in order for others to win. See it as an opportunity to lift yourself higher by lifting many, many others through your unique gifts.
Let go of the illusion that you must struggle. And let in the beautiful reality of how very good life can be.
As the great Diane Nyad reminds us all, "onward"!! :-)